As some of you may already know from my personal blog, I am in the throes of preparing for an upcoming divorce. I have not filed yet but it's already quite ugly, given that we also have a Little Nabi to
fight over consider,and I we have abandoned all hope of future relocation to Korea in order for LN to learn her mother's side of culture and language. As a matter of fact, that aspect of our future plans was the first thing PN, my soon-to-be-ex husband, brought up as something he would not allow if I were to proceed with the divorce plans.
Some of the things with which I initially wrestled included not only the demise of aforementioned plan but also racial and cultural components of our family now and in the future.