Last night I watched a movie in a theater for the first time since August. And it was for work. But it was an incredible film.
The Namesake is based on the book by Jhumpa Lahiri, and the film is directed by Mira Nair, and stars Kal Penn (in a very un-Kumar role).
One of the main themes is about names, how we own these, how we connect to these in terms of our identities. I know so many people who have struggled with this - people who were renamed by teachers in kindergarten, people with names like Sukhi who go by Sam instead.
But the part that resonated most with me was the story of the parents - how they struggled to balance their relationship and their lives with the hopes and dreams that they had for their kids. More than identifying with Kal Penn/Gogol like I did when I read the book, this time, I felt for the plight of his mom Tabu/Ashima. It's one of those films that makes you want to go and call/visit your parents when it's over. It made me think about what I expect out of a life partner and the work that goes in to making a truly loving marriage.
I'm not saying that the film was perfect. It had its flaws and it's oh-too-Hollywood moments. But overall, I enjoyed it. I appreciated it for adding one more multi-layered example of life in Asian America.
The film is open in NYC and LA now, and will be opening in wider distribution over the next couple of weeks. If you get a chance (and a babysitter), go check out it out.
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